Infertility counseling
Holistic Fertility Counseling: Compassionate Support, Stress Management, and Strategic Guidance for Your Journey
I invite you to discover a compassionate approach to fertility counseling. I understand the challenges of the journey to parenthood and offer a safe space for support and understanding. With personalized strategies for nervous system regulation and emotional resilience, I'm here to empower you through every step of your journey. If you’re seeking guidance, I encourage you to reach out. Together, we can create a plan that aligns with your fertility goals.
Facing the Pain of Fertility Struggles
Month after month, the disappointment of not conceiving can feel overwhelming, especially when all you want is to hold your baby in your arms.
The hope that each attempt will be successful, followed by the crushing blow of another failure, is incredibly hard to bear.
You might find yourself blaming your diet, your health, your state of mind, your partner or even karma. The constant uncertainty about whether to change doctors, try new treatments, or adjust your lifestyle adds to the stress.
Seeing others around you have babies can feel like a punch to the gut, amplifying feelings of sadness and failure. The deep, aching desire for a child, combined with ongoing setbacks, makes it hard to stay hopeful and patient, leaving you feeling lost and heartbroken.
You may need someone to talk to
It’s not easy to share your experience with others, and they don’t always understand what you’re going through. You might struggle to find the right words to explain your feelings. Friends and family might not fully grasp the depth of your situation, leaving you feeling unsupported. Infertility can also place a strain on relationships, and if you’re navigating this journey alone, the sense of isolation could be even more profound. The emotional, physical, and financial pressures can feel overwhelming. During this challenging time, having someone who truly listens and understands can make a significant difference.
You could feel different
What if you had a place where you could share your experience and truly feel understood?
Imagine having the support to maintain clarity, strength, hope, and pride. What if you could cultivate more self-love, self-appreciation, and trust, rather than being weighed down by self-judgment and fear? Picture feeling more in control of your journey, rather than just a small part of an overwhelming process. What if you had strategies to calm your nervous system and feel grounded every day? And what if you had tools to help navigate the challenging days before conception and the anxious waiting periods?
These are all possible with the right support and resources. You don’t have to face this journey alone.
Samuel Smiles
“Hope Is The Companion Of Power, And Mother Of Success; For Who So Hopes Strongly Has Within Him The Gift Of Miracles.”
The connection between stress and fertility
is well-documented in medical and scientific research. High levels of stress can disrupt hormonal balance, interfere with ovulation, and impact overall reproductive health. Stress triggers the release of hormones like cortisol, which can negatively affect the menstrual cycle and sperm quality, making it more challenging to conceive. However, it’s important to approach this topic with sensitivity. The idea of being completely stress-free can add unnecessary guilt and pressure to those already navigating the emotional and physical challenges of fertility. Stress is a natural part of the human experience, and addressing it should be done with compassion and understanding. Talking to someone and learning stress regulation tools can be incredibly beneficial in managing stress more effectively, providing support and practical strategies to help you feel more in control and less overwhelmed.
Tools to promote nervous system regulation, reduce stress and increase calm
1. Develop Supportive Self-Talk
2. Set Times for Regulation
3. Choose Tools That Work for You!
4. Activate Your Vocal Cords
5. Tapping for fertility (EFT)
6. Create an Image of Hope
7. Movement
8. Writing
9. Sharing your feelings with someone
My approach to Fertility counseling
My approach to fertility counseling is comprehensive and supportive. I offer a safe space where you can openly process and explore your emotions and experiences. Together, we will learn and practice tools to regulate your nervous system and activate the vagus nerve, helping you manage stress and maintain balance. Additionally, we will develop personalized strategies to navigate upcoming treatments, manage the waiting periods, and handle the news you receive. This holistic approach aims to support you through every step of your fertility journey with compassion and practical guidance
Exploring Common Themes in Fertility Counseling
Managing Infertility-Related Stress
Navigating the Impact of Infertility on Relationships
Enhancing Communication and Support with Your Partner
Understanding and Evaluating Fertility Treatment Options
Coping with Social Events and Others’ Pregnancies
Addressing Financial Concerns
Dealing with Weight and Body Image Issues
Exploring Alternative Family-Building Options
Donor egg / Donor Sperm / Donor embryo
Surrogacy
Induced lactation
Adoption
Accepting Medical Recommendations for Treatments
Managing the Emotional Impact of Time and Biological Clocks
Support Through IUI, IVF and other fertility Processes
Addressing Feelings of Shame and Self-Blame
Infertility Counseling
Sessions are usually held once a week, but during particularly difficult periods or when navigating a fertility cycle, we can schedule them more often. I offer a lower rate for those needing more than one session per week. Whether in person in LA, Santa Monica, or Encino, or online from the comfort of your own home.
Each session will provide a safe space to express and process your emotions and thoughts.
We’ll identify patterns that contribute to your struggles and develop strategies to change them.
You’ll learn communication skills for your relationships and practice tools to calm your nervous system, fostering a more peaceful internal environment.
My goal is to help you cultivate hope, appreciation, and acceptance on your journey to achieving your parenthood goals.
Concierge Service
There are moments in which you really need to be supported. It may be a blood test, a doctor’s visit, waiting for the phone call from the doctor, hearing results, or dealing with results.
I offer concierge services so you don’t feel alone in those moments.
On the day you receive that call or when it’s time to reach out to your doctor’s office, I’ll be on the phone with you to help you breathe, regulate your emotions, and regain your footing.
If you're located in LA, Santa Monica, Malibu, Encino, or nearby areas, I’m available to accompany you to appointments and provide the support you need.
For more info, contact me.
Community - Free Support Group
Join us for Safe Landing, a monthly support group designed for those navigating the often challenging path of fertility. If you’ve experienced setbacks and heartbreak along the way, this group offers a safe space to connect, share your emotions, and express your thoughts and pain.
Our gatherings are free and open to all, emphasizing hope and empowerment as we come together. Each session includes calming exercises and techniques for nervous system regulation—practices that not only support your journey toward conception but also prioritize your well-being.
We often forget to care for ourselves in this journey, and Safe Landing is here to remind you of that. Join our intimate group on the first Sunday of each month at 12 PM PST, and find community and comfort among those who understand.
